Saturday, 18 July 2026

Revolutionary love. Civic love. Love.


For Maria Bárbara

Hélène Landemore’s “Politics without politicians: The case for citizen rule” (2026) was a fascinating read, for which David van Reybrouck’s “Against elections” (2016) had opened the way for me. Both share with us recent experiences (in the last three decades) where, inspired by the principles of ancient Athenian democracy, different societies (in Iceland, Ireland, France, Belgium, Canada, the US) tried to reinvent the democratic system of ruling by involving every day citizens in decision-making through sortition.

Landemore goes deeper into the how’s, the pros and cons of sortition. Many people I talked about this in the past reacted by questioning, not only the legitimacy, but mainly the capacity of ordinary citizens, chosen at random, to make decisions that should better be left with experts. Two references struck me with relation to these concerns:

In a 1966 study called “The American Jury”, Harry Kalven and Hans Zeisel showed “a high level of agreement between jury verdicts and the judges’ pre-verdict opinions, suggesting that juries are generally competent and reliable in deciding cases, at least as individual judges.” (p.116). Landemore also reminds us that Alexis de Tocquevile, the French philosopher who visited the US in the 19th century (and wrote “Democracy in America”, considered the jury “a school of democratic education”.

Another significant reference was the Icelandic experiment in involving ordinary citizens in the 2010-2013 process of reviewing the country’s constitution. In this case, 25 ordinary citizens wrote a new constitution on the basis of the of the recommendations of a random sample of 950  Icelanders. The process resulted in three proposals. One was drafted and crowdsourced by ordinary people, not experts. The 25 writers, through deliberation, achieved consensus. The seven experts were so divided that they produced two separate texts. In Landemore’s opinion, and among different advantages, the citizens’ draft presented more sophisticated solutions and it developed a longer and richer list of citizens’ rights, mentioning more sources of discrimination than the experts’ draft (pp. 119-121).

I could go on and on regarding the details Landemore gives us on experiences with ordinary citizens, chosen by sortition and involved in processes such as the laws on same- sex marriage and the abortion in Ireland; or the French Great National Debates, which was an answer to the protests of the Yellow Vests, and also served as a basis for the Citizens’ Convention for Climate that followed. It is truly fascinating, but the thing that most got my attention was another: love.

Chapter 7 is entitled “The power of love”. Nicolas Hulot, the French former Minister of the Environment, was the guest of honour in one of the meetings of the Citizens’ Convention for Climate. He shared something incredibly honest and impressive. He said that what he hated the most about the French National Assembly as the atmosphere. “People hate one another over there. Here you are positive. You give me hope.” (p. 157)

Landemore writes that she hadn’t expected the emergence of love between participants in cirtizens’ assemblies. She now believes that love is a central emotion in these experiments. Even before, in chapter 3, which she calls “Democracy by Coincidence”, she discusses hate an the way our oligarchic democracies divide us, polarise us, demonise the other part, promote lies and the distortion of other opinions, because the point is to win – not to be right, not to listen, not to learn, not to change your mind (p.65). Landemore describes how she started paying more attention to “the markers of love and affection”. She narrates a number of incidents where love emerged in different ways among people who had been total strangers and randomly came together to serve a purpose. What particularly called my attention was the part on curing prejudices (pp.167-169), which is very relevant considering it comes to looking to rebuild our democratic system, considering the erosion it has suffered, the polarisation, the hate and avoiding any discussion with anyone whose views are different from ours or might annoy or cause us discomfort. How can we do politics without talking and listening?

Landemore tells the story of  two specific people that took part in the first Irish Convention on the Constitution which, among other topics, discussed marriage equality. There was Finbarr O’Brien – a loner, disaffected with politics and someone who had been sexually abused as a child by a friend of his parents. There was also Chris Lyons, a gay man who has suffered bullying from homophobes. Chris’ looks (piercings, makeup, hairstyle) made Finbarr feel out of control. Chris saw in Finbarr one more older Irishman whom he repeatedly had to convince that he was not a pervert and decided to ignore him. The gap was obvious and huge. In the end, Finbarr spoke in favour of same-sex marriage and Chris found a friend in an older man. Landemore calls this “the transformative power of civic love”: over approximately six days of deliberation, “two individuals bridged the gap between them by learning together and bonding over a shared goal. Without that bond, there would have been no understanding, no growth, no opportunity for either of them to challenge their assumptions.”

This story brought memories of the Heineken experience “Worlds Apart”; or that of the Danish TV2 channel “All that we share”.



The issue of polarisation keeps coming up in my seminars these days. Many people express disappointment at the way the world has become and feel unable to counter it, they believe it’s hopeless. A colleague whom I interviewed recently brought a nuance to this, though. He didn’t use the word polarisation, but “entrenchment”. And this is more like it, really. We have become defensive, desperately looking for protection from different, annoying, discomforting views; views that don’t confirm, but challenge our certainties. I recently wrote an article for the magazine “Manifesto” (issue nr. 9, “Is culture a weapon?”)  questioning whether there is anything more irritating than the attitude expressed by the sentence “We agree to disagree”, which has become so popular and is actually used to cut a discussion short. In the article, I mention American film director and activist Valarie Kaur, who says that love is a transformative force in our lives. She defines revolutionary love as “the choice to see no stranger… to risk ourselves for each other,” talks about the need to cultivate the inner strength to see the humanity in others — even those who oppose us.

The people I encounter in my seminars often say that they have lost faith in humanity. I haven’t. Because it keeps appearing in moments of crisis – and that’s a sign it is still there. We are still able to care for each other, to give a helping hand, to share a meal (or drink a Heineken) with a stranger. What does it take to keep this going also when the crisis is over? Hélène Landemore’s book may give us some ideas. Perhaps counting less on professional politicians to take the burden from our shoulders and decide for us – when all they care is to retain power by spreading division, hate, anger and fear. The ingredients we need are different: love, trust, care, solidarity – and the collective wisdom we can invest in building a better democracy.




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